Every Christmas season I make my movie rounds. Tradition dictates that I start with National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation on Thanksgiving, followed closely by Scrooged, Home Alone, The Santa Clause, and of course, It’s a Wonderful Life.
No matter how many times I watch this movie, I am touched by the idea that we each make a difference. What, if like Jimmy Stewart’s character, George, we all got a glimpse into how different the world would look without our contributions? Would we value our lives more? Would we pay more attention to our impact on others and the world around us? Would we be less hard on ourselves, knowing the world was a better place because we existed?
When I wrote several letters of appreciation last year, I was struck by how many people have and continue to make a difference in my life. Thousands. I think of my students faces, my family, my roommates, the baristas at Peet’s, the homeless man I see walking every day, my teachers, etc. They have all made a difference, and my life is better because of them.
Like most people though, I find that it’s easier to think of the people that have made a difference in my life rather than to consider how I’ve made an impact in others’ lives. A friend recently told me of the effect I had in her life. I was taken back and honored by her candor, gratitude, and love. She said, “You don’t know what your words have meant to me. You make such a difference.” I knew that we were close friends, but I didn’t realize to what extent my friendship had an influence.
I’m not sure why we’re not more encouraged to express our appreciation for people and their impact in our lives, but I hope that in 2011, I can share more “Jimmy Stewart Moments” with the daily people who make my life richer.
Love Love this post. I’ve been feeling this a lot lately. Everyday a stranger (and friend) does something to help me out or just talk to me and it really makes my day and makes me feel wonderful…sadly is took a broken leg for strangers to help/reach out. But it made me realize how the simplest things can really impact someone or make their day. Even just smiling at someone makes an impact!
Thanks Andrea! It is amazing when we stop and think about all the small things that make a difference.
I love your conscious appreciation of those who touch your life as well as your acknowledgment for yourself and how you touch the lives of others. 🙂 I was just thinking of this yesterday…and I love that you were too.
Thank you for being so supportive of my blog… that has made my life richer for sure.
Have a blessed 2011.
Thanks so much, Currie! Your life and blog have definitely been an inspiration to me!
Beautiful.
Thank you!
Your hostney is like a beacon
Thanks Gertrude!
I do the same thing when I watch It’s a Wonderful Life but I usually think that I wouldn’t have the same effect on people that George did. I’ve never saved anyone’s life or stopped someone from poisoning a kid. But I know that I’ve made small differences, and I guess that’s all that matters. Great post!
Thanks for your post, Jessica! Maybe you were like George. Maybe you made someone’s life better, and they saved a ship like Harry or even a dog or something equally important. Who knows to what extent we’ve really affected others. 🙂
thanks for making my life better
Your comment totally made my day, Walter! Thank you for the encouragement and for reading!