One year ago, I wrote: “I want to rock my 29th year and slide into 30 saying, “Wow! What an awesome ride!” What I didn’t write in that post was how trapped and miserable I felt in my life at the time.
I wrote a song for the banjo two months earlier called “Two Sizes Too Small” and in the chorus, there’s a line that says, “When life doesn’t fit anymore.” I had lost my love affair with life. I had a choice: continue going through the motions or create a life worth loving again.
3 weeks after turning 29, I decided that if I was going to rock my 29th year, things had to change immediately. I took some soul-searching time in Golden Gate Park and made a declaration to the universe: By October 8th, I want to be living a life I love!
I allowed myself to dream again. If there were no limitations, what would I do? Where would I go? Who would I choose to be? This is what I came up with.
At the top of the list was sailing, which I had never done before, but something about it felt right. I signed up for sailing lessons even before stepping onto a proper sailboat. 2 months later, I was crewing along with a friend of mine for a fantastic skipper sailing in Mexico. As the sun set that first night on the water, I was overwhelmed with gratitude for how quickly life can change, and the phrase bubbled up from inside me, “I love my life.”
I’m hours away from my 30th lap around the sun, and I have no doubt that this new decade will bring more adventures and life to love than I can possibly imagine. When I reflect on my 20’s, there’s no doubt that I have lived.
As with all endings and new beginnings, I feel some sadness saying goodbye to such a life-changing decade, but I’ve learned that the most miraculous part of life is that it continually expands and inspires if you allow it to.
As my incredibly wise Grandmother said at every age including 100, “My favorite age is the one I’m at!” The truth is that whether it’s 29, 30, 42, 55, 16, or 92, each age is special. The best years of our lives are always here, but it’s up to use to make the choice to live them.
I thank all of you for joining me in this continued experiment in intentionally living. I’ve found that when all is said and done, people make the difference, and 6 Months to Live is what it is today and what it’s becoming because of you. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
My 30th birthday wish for each and everyone of you reading this is that you live your joy and experience a lifetime of truly living!
p.s. Did I mention that I’m flying a plane for my birthday? Post to come soon!
Happy 30th Birthday and I hope you got the email that I sent with your virtual greetings card from me. I posted it on my blog, too. When I saw my sunflower watercolour painting, it reminded me of someone like you, full of sunshine, truly living and happy about a great life that you loved. So it’s just fitting that I send you that virtual card for your coming birthday! Lots of Love and Blessings to you!<3
Thanks so much! That’s so sweet of you to send a card. I just checked my email, and I don’t see it. Which email did you send it to? I did just see it on your blog though. How thoughtful–what a wonderful bday surprise–thank you! 🙂 Wishing you many blessings as well!
sent a link on Jacqueline@6monthstolive.me and i’m glad u saw it on my blog, have fun!
Happy Birthday Jackie!! Have fun flying a plane!
Thanks so much, CeCe! I definitely will! 🙂
Happy Birthday! You’re right, each year can be the year of our lives if we choose to live with passion. Enjoy!
Thanks so much, lady! 🙂 Absolutely!
Happy 30th Birthday Amazing Lady! YOU ROCK! I truly believe this year is going to be your best year yet 🙂
Thanks so much, Arianna!!! For you too! The adventures of our 30’s await! 🙂
happy big 3 Jacqueline. it will get better n better I promise you! life’s like that when it’s well-lived… from a half centurion…:)
Love that, Audrey! Thank you! 🙂
Hey Jackie, Happy Birthday dear lassie! You’ll be flying over beautiful country where you are. post a picture if you can. and thanks again for the fabulous online course.
Thanks so much, Katie! About to respond to your lovely email. 🙂 I will be sure to take (or have my friend) take lots of photos! So glad you enjoyed the class, and am very much looking forward to keeping in touch! 🙂
On my flying lesson, I quickly went from terror, through amazement, on to boredom, and concluded with getting seriously airsick. I am quite the adventurer, no? Let me know~ kk
Haha! Sounds like the makings of a great speech! 🙂
Inspiring as always. Happy birthday and I hope you have a fantastic year. 🙂
Currie
Thanks so much, lady! Look forward to a catch up convo in the near future! :0)
Yes, let’s do have a phone catch up soon. :). Hope your birthday took you to great heights. 😉
It certainly did–thanks lady! 🙂
Happy birthday!!! You are flying a plane??? Brilliant. Let us know how that went.
Take care,
Paul x
Thanks Paul! I did–will be posting soon! It was phenomenal! 🙂
Fantastic post Jacqueline, love reading posts where people have made that change, I can certainly relate to you in terms of the way you felt.
Happy Birthday, hope you enjoy/ed the plane ride!
I’m all signed up for updates now 🙂
Chris
Thanks so much, Chris for the wonderful words and for signing up! I certainly did. Will definitely be getting my pilot’s license. Post to come soon! 😉
Great post Jacqueline! I think it’s common around the 29 mark to feel a bit stuck/sluggish/apprehensive/confused. Scratch that, I think it’s common to feel that way at any age marker that terrifies, be it 21, 29, 35, 42, 58, etc. It’s great how you chose to deal with your apprehension and I look forward to reading about all the interesting and adventurous things you get up to this year. As a friend of mine wrote to me when I hit 30: “Welcome to your ‘dirty thirties’! Like a fine wine, you’re only getting better with each passing year. Do your thing. Be in the moment. Just enjoy. Forget what everyone else is doing. Carve your path. It’s never too late. EVER.”
All the best for the year ahead!
I love that, JoAnna! “Carve your path. It’s never too late. EVER.” Thank you for your well wishes and look forward to hearing more from you! 🙂
You are too cool. 🙂 Happy 30th! Keep on rockin’!
Haha. Thanks Cameron! You’re a cool cat as well! 😉 You too!